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Supporting children experiencing intense emotions

About this pathway

As parents, we play an important role in supporting children’s emotional development, helping them understand their own emotions and express them in supportive ways.  

Understanding children’s emotions and behaviours, and knowing the most helpful ways to respond, is not always easy. If you have not already, we suggest working through the Understanding and supporting your child’s emotions and behaviour pathway before exploring the content in this one. It provides an overview of how children learn about their emotions and develop the skills to regulate them, with the support of their parents and other caring adults in their life.  

This pathway is for parents of children experiencing ongoing intense emotions – such as anxiety, anger, sadness and guilt – and the worrying or concerning behaviours that often come with those emotional experiences. It will guide you to:  

  • understand and know how to validate your child’s experiences 

  • explore and talk about their experiences together  

  • learn strategies for safe and helpful ways to respond and support your child.  

This pathway offers strategies that are proven to be helpful across a range of intense emotions and emotional behaviours. These are safe and straightforward to try at home. These strategies can be used whether your child is seeing a health professional or not, including while they are waiting to get an assessment or support. 

Please read the following information about this pathway and how you can get the most out of it.  

Modules

Module 1: Understanding intense emotions

15 minutes
Learn more about intense or ‘big’ emotions and ways of identifying whether your child’s emotional behaviours are ‘normal’ or they could use some extra support.

Module 2: Responding to intense emotions

15 minutes
Explore helpful things parents can say and do when children are experiencing intense emotions. Get strategies and tips for hearing, validating and talking about your child’s experience, seeing the problem through their eyes and helping them find ways to reduce it.

Module 3: Exploring emotions and helpful responses together

15 minutes
Help children to understand what they felt and how they reacted when they experienced an intense emotion, so that they can build their skills for next time. Be guided to notice, support and explore what works for your child.

Module 4: Considering impacts on your family

15 minutes
This module supports you to consider possible impacts on other children in your household when a child experiencing intense emotions needs more of your focus, time and energy. If you don’t have other children, you might like to skip this module.

Module 5: Getting professional help

15 minutes
Find out when and how to access further support if you have continuing concerns about your child’s emotions or behaviours. This module includes links to more resources and services.

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Urgent help

If you are feeling overwhelmed or low, or you are concerned that someone in your family is struggling or might be thinking of suicide, you can call Lifeline on 13 11 14. If anyone's life is in immediate danger, call Triple Zero (000)

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